For gay and lesbian youth, that’s a tall order.

Growing up is tough enough without being different in a way that our society considers to be unacceptable -
and in a social environment that is uncaring, hostile, and often violent.

Young people do not choose to be gay. They know or sense they are different even before they understand the concept of attraction or sexual orientation. Some realize they respond differently to activities enjoyed by their peers of the same gender. Others realize that they do not fit the stereotypes promoted by their parents or the other adults around them. They discover  that they are different.

They - and the greater family of the community - need our help to stay together.

Feeling valued is often difficult for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered youth.
The message that they are wrong to be different is conveyed early - and restated endlessly - as they grow up.

That’s devastating for the child - and it can destroy a family, the extended family of friends, and the greater family of community through alienation and some times devastating consequences.

WeAreFamily is SafeSpace.

Gay youth are at least 5 times more likely to attempt suicide than heterosexual youth as a result of the feelings of isolation and alienation they experience.

The answer is understanding - not just among family members but in the greater community.

That’s what WeAreFamily is all about. We teach the community to value all of its members - gay or straight - through awareness and education.
We help gay or lesbian youth find their places in the world - and in their families and communities.